Have you ever come into a match and just sort of “gone with the flow?” You know - “letting the game come to you.” Now if you have, and you lost the match in the process, that quote was probably a big part of it. And to be honest, I really don’t like that quote at all. 
It’s trying to convey the message of “not forcing. But it’s really unclear and pretty vague. And it tends to lead a lot of players in the wrong direction. They end up taking it too far and then find themselves being too passive. As a result, a lot of players…
Do you know a tennis player in your area who is at the same level you are and has the same skill set that you do (…same strokes, same level of experience), but you’re terrified about facing him because you’ve been beaten by him the last few times in a row and fear that he might defeat you again… giving you an even bigger headache than before?
I mean, even though you’re virtually the same in every aspect like health, athletic ability, and overall game, one frustrating question is continuously swirling around in your brain and seems like it’ll never go away; “Why Can’t I Beat Him… EVER?
